Errores comunes de los clientes en casos de violencia doméstica

Entrevistador: What are some other common mistakes that clients might make that they may not even know of?

James Abate: There are people who drop a temporary restraining order because they just don’t want to trouble or they’re thinking everything’s going to be better now, and it isn’t, and they put themselves in further danger. It’s not the one incident. They’re looking at the whole picture. There are some forms of assaults that are so extreme that you’re going to get the orden de alejamiento, no matter what kind of case gets put on. I’ve had situations where someone had their eye socket broken; that’s an extreme amount of violence. I’ve had instances where someone had their arm slashed to the point where tendons were torn with a knife, and that’s when they’re going to look for the restraining order and the serious criminal charges.

Domestic Contretemps Do Not Validate The Issuance Of A Final Restraining Order

I’ve had cases where there were less extreme situations, but because there had been so many of these situations and they keep recurring, that’s what would happen. Now, there is also a concept called “domestic contretemps.” And that means there are some situations where it’s just people being in a relationship. One husband texted his wife 140 times about something going on at school with their children, and she wouldn’t respond to him. She said she was being harassed, and the judge said, “That’s not him trying to harass you; it’s him trying to get an answer regarding his children.” It’s domestic contretemps. You could make the case and under the law, if I were to text someone I am in domestic relationship with and say “You are a complete asshole,” that would be harassment. It could be, but it’s not enough to issue a final restraining order; it’s domestic contretemps.

Trespassing Can Be A Factor In The Issuance Of A Restraining Order

Entrevistador: Could trespassing ever be considered a factor in a domestic violence dispute?

James Abate: Yes. In fact, I had a case recently where a boyfriend just snuck into his ex-girlfriend’s home through the dog’s door and basically broke into her home. That was significant enough. First, that is a predicate act that would justify issuing a temporary restraining order and a final restraining order. And it was enough for the ultimate issuance of the final restraining order because they had an extensive history. There’s a three-step process. The relationship is the easy part, and the second part is a predicate act committed. And that can be a number of things from assault to harassment, to acoso, to criminal mischief, to trespass, but the fact that the predicate act has been committed isn’t enough.

In Order For The Ultimate Issuance Of A Final Restraining Order, It Is Necessary To Prove Its Requirement Being Imperative To Protect The Victim From Further Harm

There has also been a shelling that based on the review of the history that a final restraining order is necessary to protect the victim from further harm being committed. Let’s take an example. Let’s say I slap someone I’m in a relationship with and I walk out and I say “I never want to see you again,” okay. Could they be charged with assault? Absolutely. Could a restraining order be issued? Yes, but let’s say this is the first time there’s ever been an exchange like that, and I’ve communicated I never want to see you again, but then what’s the need for a final restraining order? I’ve made it clear I don’t want to be near you again; there may also be reasons why I slapped you.

The Predicate Act And The Need For A Final Restraining Order Influence Its Issuance

There are insufficient reasons to get you out of a criminal case, but they explain things in the family court case. So, it’s those two factors of the predicate act, which is the easy part, but the hardest part is whether there is a need for a final restraining order to protect the victim from future acts of domestic violence.